Wednesday, September 23, 2009

My Little One is SIX Months Old ...



Wow! Where does the time go? It is so hard to believe that Jackson is already six months old. He's laughing, smiling, crawling, sitting up, eating real food, babbling, and the list goes on. The cutest thing is when he gets all excited when his Daddy walks in the door. Jay said the other day, "Either I'm real ugly or the funniest man in the whole world because he loves to laugh at me".

Every night at 8:30 before Jackson heads to bed, we watch the Wonder Pets on Nick Jr. He adores this show, and it keeps his full attention. It is hard to think of what my life was like before him; he is definitely a gift from God.

We go on Wednesday, Sept. 30th to find out what the sex is of our 2nd baby ... I'm excited and anxious. It doesn't matter whether it is a boy or a girl, but it's always so fun to find out.

Enjoy the pictures of Jackson's celebration of six months. Until next time ...

Friday, September 18, 2009

Just for Uncle Joshy ....

Thursday, August 20, 2009

2nd Baby Dalton

Hey, everyone! I'm REALLY slack about updating you on Jackson's life as well as the progress of our new addition. I promise to post more about my sweet little guy in the next couple of days, but I wanted to let you know how my Dr. appointment went. We got to see the heartbeat on the monitor, but couldn't hear it yet. I am due March 1st, which is 21 days before Jackson's first birthday. Lord, help me because I am going to need it. I'm not excited about being pregnant again, but I am excited about having another child. Jackson is the light of my life, and I look forward to the blessings this new little one will bring to our life.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Another Bundle of PURE JOY

Wow! I can't believe that I'm updating with this kind of news .... as most of you know, I'm not real good at handling surprises. BUT, this is probably the best surprise ever. We're pregnant AGAIN. Yes, I know ... Jackson is almost 4 months old, and we're absolutely CRAZY. :-) This definitely wasn't planned, but I truly believe God meant this as a blessing.

But, Jay and I have been praying about a family situation for some time now, where we had the opportunity to be foster parents to two of Jay's cousins. However, we never found a true peace about it, but we continued on with the DSS process. Well, two Fridays ago, I began feeling nauseous, thinking that I had eaten something that disagreed with me. (Thinking it was Paul's hamburgers from the grill) On Sunday after church, I still felt this way. Well, I bought 2 pregnancy tests from Walmart, and both of them displayed PREGNANT on the digital screen. God has a CUTE sense of humor, but I honestly believe that this is why we never had a peace about taking the children in. God had a different plan in mind. I just don't think I'm capable of taking care of that many children at one time considering the range of ages.

I made an appointment with my OB/GYN for July 30th so we'll know more by then, but I ask that you pray that everything goes smoothly just like last time. I also ask that you pray for Jay's cousins, and God's plan for their life. They are sweet children, and they need a loving, stable home. Until next time ...

Thursday, June 18, 2009

!!Please Pray!!

I'm not a fan of when people request prayer for an unspoken request, but I'm going to have to do that today. I'm so thankful to know people who are mighty to pray. I hope to share more of what my prayer request is about here soon, but until I can, I ask that you pray for Jay and I tomorrow. We have a meeting tomorrow around 1:30, and I'm praying that we would know clearly what we are to do and what God would have us to do. Until then ....

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

????Jogging Stroller????

Hey, everyone! I am in need of your opinions, suggestions, horror stories, and/or praise sessions concerning what type of jogging stroller to purchase. Down here at the beach, a normal stroller will not work in the sand so I am looking into purchasing a jogging stroller. BUT, there are so many different brands, types, colors, etc. that I don't even know where to begin. If any of you own one, or know anything about them, please send me a comment! Have a blessed night!

Friday, June 12, 2009


This face absolutely melts my heart ... he's so expressive and talkative right now. He has figured out that he can make noises, and people pay attention. He loves to sing "This Little Light of Mine", and he points and raises his hands at people. Why of course ... you can't understand his lyrics to the song, but it is still the cutest thing ever.
Summer is here, and we're busy, busy, busy. Take care and have a blessed day!

Hanging out with Pop Pop

Snoozing away! He is Pop Pop's little man, but Pop Pop hasn't mastered the art of changing a diaper. He kept Jackson the other morning while I worked and Mom was at the doctor. He said that if Jackson needed his diaper changed, he would walk him across the street to Elaine and Steve's house so E could change it. Men!!!

Wow! How Time Flies!

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT HAS ONLY BEEN THREE MONTHS SINCE I WENT FROM THIS...

(ME 9 MONTHS PREGNANT)

TO THIS!

(SNOOZING WITH JACKSON)


Thursday, June 11, 2009

Days in the Life of Jackson

Jackson absolutely loves his Boppy pillow at Granny's house. He plays on it, he lays on it, he eats on it, he spits up on it, and he sleeps on it. He's such a sweet but very impatient child ... I wonder who he gets that from!

Uncle Josh loves to put hats and sunglasses on him. He's wearing Uncle Josh's loud but stylish hat.

Here's our little Rocky!

Friday, May 29, 2009

More to Come ....

I realize that I have been very bad about keeping you up-to-date on our daily adventures in the Dalton family so I'm going to make a promise ... I will post new pictures and stories by the end of this weekend. Until then ....

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Jackson Cobb Dalton


It is amazing how much love you have for one tiny little guy! I sit and stare at him, and I am in awe that my husband and I made such a beautiful and perfect person. He is a complete joy, and Jay is so good with him. Jay is like having another little mom around the house.



After 19 hours of labor, Jackson was born on March 22nd at 9:54 PM. He weighed 7 pounds 6.5 ounces, and he was 20 inches long. It was a long, drawn out process, but it was worth every minute of it. I couldn't imagine life without him.



We went for his two week check-up on April 9th. He had gained up to 8 pounds 5 ounces, and he measured 22 inches long. The doctor was pleased with his progress. After the Dr. appt., we met Granny at the mall so I could exchange some gifts he got for a bigger size and shop for his Easter outfit. This Sunday will be his first time going to church, and I pray that he doesn't cry the whole time. Stay tuned for Easter pictures; we're headed to church for Easter with his Godparents, Uncle Mark and Aunt Layne! We went out for lunch with Granny and Uncle Josh after the mall then on to the outlet malls for some more shopping. We made a day of it, and he slept through most of it.

Thursday, April 9, 2009


Where has the time gone ... It seems like just yesterday that Jay and I were planning our wedding, picking out gowns and tuxedos, choosing menus for the rehearsal dinner, and wondering if all the details would come together for the big day.


On March 24, 2009, Jay and I celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary with our first son, Jackson. He was scheduled to arrive on our anniversary, but I guess he wanted to make his own unique entrance on the 22nd. I must say that I'm glad that he didn't arrive on our anniversary, and that he has his own special day to call his own. I had planned to go shopping for Jay's gift on the Sunday Jackson was born, but I had already bought him a card. So, I took out the card and grabbed a pen ... and I was at a loss for words.

As I lay in the hospital on Monday night cuddling with Jackson after Jay left, my heart was overwhelmed with all kinds of emotions, but my heart was full of love for my husband. He had been so comforting and loving during my nine months of pregnancy and during the delivery. He had definitely seen the good, the bad, and the ugly by the time my labor was over, and I couldn't even begin to write how much I respected him, loved him, and most of all, appreciated him.


He came in the next morning on our anniversary with gifts and cards, and I was blown away by his sincerity. He had put me first, shared his heart in each word he wrote, and made sure that I felt NUMBER ONE in his book. He bought me a diamond tennis bracelet that he picked out, which makes it even more special. BUT, my favorite part of all were his cards and the notes he wrote in each one. He isn't a perfect person, but he is the perfect person for me! I LOVE YOU, JAY!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

I went to see my doctor on Tuesday for my weekly appointment, and I haven't dilated at all. Due to some previous health issues, I have scar tissue that may keep me from dilating on my own. She was concerned to let me keep going on my own, size of the baby, and the fact my blood pressure was a little elevated yesterday. I have to check myself in on Monday night after 5:00 PM at Waccamaw Hospital, and they will administer a medication called Cervidil. If that causes my cervix to thin out and dilate, they will start pitocin on Tuesday morning, and hopefully, Jackson will arrive shortly thereafter. If the Cervidil doesn't work, Dr. Richmond is considering a c-section.

Please be praying that it is a short, easy delivery. I just want Jackson to be completely healthy, and for everything to go smoothly.


Jackson has really plumped up. He weighs about 6.8 pounds and he's over 19 1/2 inches long (like a leek). He has a firm grasp, which we'll soon be able to test when we hold his hand for the first time! His organs have matured and are ready for life outside the womb.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Jackson is officially full term! This means that if he arrives now, his lungs should be fully mature and ready to adjust to life outside the womb, even though my due date is still three weeks away. He weighs 6 1/3 pounds and measures a bit over 19 inches, head to heel (like a stalk of Swiss chard).

Monday, March 2, 2009

36 Weeks ... :-)


Jackson is still packing on the pounds — at the rate of about an ounce a day. He now weighs almost 6 pounds (like a crenshaw melon) and is more than 18 1/2 inches long.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

ENVY

ENVY (also called invidiousness) may be defined as an emotion that "occurs when a person lacks another’s [perceived] superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it."[1] It can also derive from a sense of low self-esteem that results from an upward social comparison threatening a person's self image: another person has something that the envier considers to be important to have. If the other person is perceived to be similar to the envier, the aroused envy will be particularly intense, because it signals to the envier that it just as well could have been him or her who had the desired object.[2][3]
Bertrand Russell said envy was one of the most potent causes of unhappiness.[4] It is a universal and most unfortunate aspect of human nature because not only is the envious person rendered unhappy by his envy, but also wishes to inflict misfortune on others. Although envy is generally seen as something negative, Russell also believed that envy was a driving force behind the movement towards democracy and must be endured in order to achieve a more just social system.

Sunday, February 22, 2009


Baby Jackson doesn't have much room to maneuver now that he's over 18 inches long and tips the scales at 5 1/4 pounds (pick up a honeydew melon). Because it's so snug in my womb, he isn't likely to be doing somersaults anymore, but the number of times he kicks should remain about the same. His kidneys are fully developed now, and his liver can process some waste products. Most of his basic physical development is now complete — he'll spend the next few weeks putting on weight.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Baby Shower

Click to play Jamie Rivers Dalton: Thank You

I wanted to share with everyone pictures of Baby Jackson at 8 weeks, 18 weeks, 25 weeks, and lastly, 33 weeks! I created the above photo album to say thank you to those that attended the baby shower, brought gifts, or brightened my day. I'm so thankful for all of our friends, and I can't wait for Jackson to enjoy them too! Enjoy ... until next time ...

Saturday, February 14, 2009


Jackson now weighs about 4 3/4 pounds (like your average cantaloupe) and is almost 18 inches long. His fat layers — which will help regulate his body temperature once he's born — are filling him out, making him rounder. His skin is also smoother than ever. His central nervous system is maturing and his lungs are continuing to mature as well.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009


Jackson weighs a little over 4 pounds (heft a pineapple) and has passed the 17-inch mark. He's rapidly losing that wrinkled, alien look and his skeleton is hardening. The bones in his skull aren't fused together, which allows them to move and slightly overlap, thus making it easier for him to fit through the birth canal. (The pressure on the head during birth is so intense that many babies are born with a conehead-like appearance.) These bones don't entirely fuse until early adulthood, so they can grow as his brain and other tissue expands during infancy and childhood.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009



Jackson weighs 3.75 pounds (pick up a large jicama) and is about 16.7 inches long. He now has toenails, fingernails, and real hair (or at least respectable peach fuzz). His skin is becoming soft and smooth as he plumps up in preparation for birth.

Saturday, January 31, 2009


Jackson measures over 16 inches long. He weighs about 3.3 pounds (try carrying four navel oranges) and is heading into a growth spurt. He can turn his head from side to side, and his arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath his skin. He's moving a lot, too, so I have trouble sleeping because he kicks and does somersaults.
I'm headed to Lexington this weekend for a short getaway! A neighbor from my hometown offered to host a baby shower for me, and I'm so thrilled to catch up with old friends and celebrate Jackson's life. The shower is tomorrow afternoon then we're off to Greensboro to have dinner with more friends. It's going to be a busy weekend, but I'm soooo looking forward to some girl time! Pictures to come ... Until then!




I apologize for taking so long to update you on little Jackson and his development. Jackson is about 15.7 inches long now and weighs almost 3 pounds (like a head of cabbage). A pint and a half of amniotic fluid surrounds him, but that volume will decrease as he gets bigger and takes up more room in my uterus. His eyesight continues to develop, though it's not very keen; even after he's born, he'll keep his eyes closed for a good part of the day. When he does open them, he'll respond to changes in light but will have 20/400 vision — which means he can only make out objects a few inches from his face. (Normal adult vision is 20/20.)

Thursday, January 15, 2009

I received the email below this morning, and thought I would share it with my blog friends. It truly was a reminder to me of Christ's love! Enjoy!

A Baby's Hug
We were the only family with children in the restaurant. I sat Erik in a high chair, and noticed everyone was quietly sitting and talking. Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, 'Hi.' He pounded his fatbaby hands on the high chair tray. His eyes were crinkled in laughter, and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin, as he wriggled and giggled with merriment.
I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a man whose pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast, and his toes poked out of would-be shoes. His shirt was dirty, and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers were too short to be called a beard, and his nose was so varicose it looked like a road map. We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled.
His hands waved and flapped on loose wrists. 'Hi there, baby; hi there, big boy. I see ya, buster,' the man said to Erik. My husband and I exchanged looks, 'What do we do?' Erik continued to laugh and answer, 'Hi.' Everyone in the restaurant noticed and looked at us and then at the man. The old geezer was creating a nuisance with my beautiful baby. Our meal came and the man began shouting from across the room, 'Do ya patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey, look, he knows peek- a-boo.'
Nobody thought the old man was cute. He was obviously drunk. My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence; all except for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the admiring skid-row bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments. We finally got through the meal and headed for the door. My husband went to pay the check and told me to meet him in the parking lot. The old man sat poised between me and the door. 'Lord, just let me out of here before he speaks to me or Erik,' I prayed. As I drew closer to the man, I turned my back trying to side step him and avoid any air he might be breathing. As I did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in a baby's 'pick-me-up' position. Before I could stop him, Erik had propelled himself from my arms to the man. Suddenly a very old smelly man and a very young baby consummated their love and kinship. Erik in an act of total trust, love, and submission laid his tiny head upon the man's ragged shoulder. The man's eyes closed, and I saw tears hover beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of grime, pain, and hard labor, cradled my baby's bottom and stroked his back. No two beings have ever loved so deeply for so short a time. I stood awestruck. The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his arms, and his eyes opened and set squarely on mine. He said in a firm commanding voice, 'You take care of this baby.'
Somehow I managed, 'I will,' from a throat that contained a stone. He pried Erik from his chest, lovingly and longingly, as though he were in pain. I received my baby, and the man said, 'God bless you,ma'am, you've given me my Christmas gift.' I said nothing more than a muttered thanks. With Erik in my arms, I ran for the car. My husband was wondering why I was crying and holding Erik so tightly, and why I was saying, 'My God, my God, forgive me.' I had just witnessed Christ's love shown through the innocence of a tiny child who saw no sin, who made no judgment; a child who saw a soul, and a mother who saw a suit of clothes.
I was a Christian who was blind, holding a child who was not. I felt it was God asking, 'Are you willing to share your son for a moment?' when He shared His for all eternity. The ragged old man, unwittingly, had reminded me, 'To enter the Kingdom of God , we must become as little children.'

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

We had a wonderful Christmas/New Year holiday. It was so nice to be able to spend time with family and friends. We were showered with all types of Christmas goodies and presents. I was also blessed with a few added pounds. :-)

My parents gave me one of my heart's desires ... a weighted-key keyboard. Playing the piano has always been my escape from the day ... I love to sit down, play song after song, and forget about life's issues. Music is one of God's greatest gifts, and I truly value each key, chord, and note!

I went last week for my gestational diabetes test, and it came back NEGATIVE! That is such a huge praise for me right now considering my favorite things to eat are peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, rice krispies with bananas, chocolate milk, and powdered donuts. Yeah, I know ... I'm keeping such a lovely diet. At my last appt., I finally gained some weight, BUT I jumped from having gained nothing at all to gaining SIX pounds. The pregnancy is going great, and my only complaint is having to pee at least five times a night!

Jay is doing well, and he's enjoying watching my belly grow! BUT, I think his belly still looks bigger than mine! I'll have to post some pregnancy pictures soon! Until then ...

Monday, January 12, 2009


Jackson now weighs about 2 1/2 pounds (like a butternut squash) and is a tad over 15 inches long from head to heel. His muscles and lungs are continuing to mature, and his head is growing bigger to make room for his developing brain. To meet his increasing nutritional demands, I'll need plenty of protein, vitamins C, folic acid, and iron. And because his bones are soaking up lots of calcium, I need to be sure to drink milk (or find another good source of calcium, such as cheese, yogurt, or enriched orange juice). This trimester, about 250 milligrams of calcium are deposited in his hardening skeleton each day.

Friday, January 9, 2009

We finally asked two of our FAVORITE couples to be JACKSON'S (Yes, his name is Jackson) GODPARENTS. After much prayer and discussion, they've both accepted! I'm so excited about the role they will play in his life, and I'm also encouraged to know that he'll have Godly role models to assist him in life. Not to mention, that Jay and I love being around them too! ;-) We love you!


The FORD Family

Shannon, Maddie, Paul, and Makayla


The VAUGHAN Family

Layne and Mark

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Baby Dalton weighs about two and a quarter pounds (like a Chinese cabbage) and measures 14.8 inches from the top of his head to his heels. He can blink his eyes, which now sport lashes. With his eyesight developing, he may be able to see the light that filters in through my womb. He's also developing billions of neurons in his brain and adding more body fat in preparation for life in the outside world.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

27 Weeks ... Happy New Year's


This week, Baby Dalton weighs almost 2 pounds (like a head of cauliflower) and is about 14 1/2 inches long with his legs extended. He's sleeping and waking at regular intervals, opening and closing his eyes, and perhaps even sucking his fingers. With more brain tissue developing, baby Dalton's brain is very active now. While his lungs are still immature, they would be capable of functioning — with a lot of medical help — if he were to be born now. Chalk up any tiny rhythmic movements you may be feeling to a case of baby hiccups, which may be common from now on. Each episode usually lasts only a few moments, and they don't bother him, so just relax and enjoy the tickle.